Sione, 76, lives with his daughter, son-in-law and their children in the small village of Lapaha, Tongatapu, Tonga.
When we first met Sione, once an active, sociable character, he sat hunched over on his bed, a broken man without hope or purpose. He had cataracts in both eyes and had been virtually blind for three years. Without his sight, Sione was fully dependant on the help of others.
He felt like he was missing out on everything he loved in life – his pineapple and yam plantation, his friendships, bike, fun times with grandchildren, and, most of all, his freedom. His daughter Lusi spent most of her time looking after Sione. She felt very sorry for him and worried about him constantly. Life was hard as the rest of the family were overseas and the burden fell on her shoulders alone.
Sione felt that sense of being a burden to his daughter greatly,
If I stay blind, it would be better to die, because that will mean I am not a big problem for my children.